Hi friends!!
One of the sweetest parts of wedding planning so far has definitely been dress shopping. I wasn’t sure what to expect going into it, but it turned out to be such a special and joy-filled experience that I’ll never forget.
The very first time I went, it was just me and my mom. Honestly, that’s one of my biggest recommendations, go at least once with just the two of you. It was such a sweet, intimate day, and I’ll always treasure that memory.
That first appointment, I tried on every style you can imagine, even ones I knew weren’t really “me”, just for the fun of it. Then the next time I went back with my mom and sister, I narrowed it down and tried on dresses that felt more in line with my style. I had a better idea of what I wanted, and more importantly, what I felt most confident in.
Later, I got to bring some of my closest friends and family along, and that was one of the most fun days of all. I let each person pick out a dress for me to try on, and watching their reactions reminded me of just how much joy there is in celebrating together. It was the first time I really felt the excitement of being a bride.
Here’s the honest part, though: I never had a dramatic “this is the one” moment. I loved so many of the dresses, and at times it felt overwhelming. What helped me was prayer, I asked the Lord to give me peace about whichever dress I chose. And He did. In the end, I went with the dress that made me feel beautiful, fit our budget, and felt the most like me. It wasn’t a big surprise, it was simply the one that lined up with who I am.
So if you’re in the middle of dress shopping, here’s what I’d say: don’t pressure yourself to chase a perfect, movie-worthy moment. For some brides it happens, for others it doesn’t. What matters is finding a dress that gives you peace and joy, and reminds you of the beauty of the season you’re stepping into.
At the end of the day, the dress is just one little piece of a much bigger story, but it’s such a sweet piece to celebrate. 💌
Next time, I’ll be sharing something a little more personal: the unexpected feelings that have come with engagement and ways God has been so faithful in the midst of them all.
With love,
Sadie
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